Monday, January 9, 2017

Beauty Is In The Eye Of The Beholder


Sometimes, it takes a moment of beauty to stop you in your tracks. But behind the layers of perception, that moment isn't always completely beautiful or what it may seem. This photo was taken at a temperature of -3 degrees, but you wouldn't know that by looking at it. You wouldn't know that on they way up to take this picture, dozens of cars were stuck in their driveways by the mounds of ice and snow that made it impossible to leave. Dozens of houses with flat roofs had wet snow accumulating and building up weight that put a strain on their structural capacity.

And yet, beauty transformed the moment. This picture perfect moment was every Boise photographer's dream. The perfect shadows mixed with a blend of fall colors, and the light transcending just briefly over the ridges of the foothills. The moment of beauty was enough to bring peace and tranquility in the midst of "snowmagedden". A moment that left you feeling awestruck and vulnerable at the same time. A moment that made you really treasure the things in your life that you hold dear, and a moment to embrace those whose stories you may not know well enough.

So today, challenge yourself to find what is beautiful.

How many times do you meet someone and not know their story? In the past week, I've stopped to help two cars who couldn't make it from Point A to Point B in their journey. I don't know where they were heading, or where they had come from, but I know they were grateful to meet me even in our two minute exchange. Perhaps they had some challenges in their day. Perhaps they were in an abusive relationship. Or, perhaps they would be one of the nicest people you'd ever meet.

This week, I shoveled my sidewalk and introduced myself to the neighbor I've lived next to for seven years. I had a moment of shame when I realized that she knew my dogs name, but had never met my husband or I. I met a beautiful young woman who was working hard at the McDonald's down the street while she is working on a degree in marketing at the College of Western Idaho. After she pulled her car out to go to work, I shoveled her sidewalk because I could. I don't know the rest of her story, but I was touched by what I did hear.

I played with my dog in a two and a half foot pile of snow. We tried to have a snowball fight, but she just wanted to play fetch and got frustrated when she couldn't find the white ball of fluff that I'd thrown in her direction. She was so tired, she collapsed on my husband as we ended the evening watching the new Jason Bourne movie that had been released at Redbox.

In the midst of a rapidly melting snow pile, potential flooding, and ice-dams building on the gutter line, I live in a house with power, running water, and plenty of food to eat. I have shelter. I have safety. I live in a place where crime and safety are not my top concerns. I live in a place where people genuinely look out for the best interests in others. I get the opportunity to work in a city I love, with a man who is kinder to me than I deserve.

I imagine God plants these moments of beauty on purpose.


Sunday, March 18, 2012

The dance...

Slowly he made his way across the floor looking for his dazzling bride.  From the moment he saw her, he knew she would transform the world by simply existing in it.  A few minutes ago, he had promised her the world, or at least all of it that he could offer.  His world and hers were now a collaborative effort, seamless, a single unit in harmony with one another.  As he saw her spinning, he knew again how precious this moment was.  He had waited his whole life for this one moment.  The moment that he would have a soul mate - someone that truly and wholly completed him.

As he stepped out onto the floor, the world stopped moving.  Time moved in the pace of a heartbeat.  His, hers, joined together in rhythm.  She was fearless with the white flowing gown.  He was glistening with perspiration, but only on his temples, just below the short curly locks of brown hair.

Why me?  He'd asked himself this question hundreds of times before.  He knew again that there could be no other answer than God willed it to be so.  With a gentle embrace, he carefully slipped his hand just under her shoulder blade and connected his other hand with hers.  A perfect fit. It was just the two of them now and he leaned in to whisper, "May I have this dance?".  Forming a sturdy frame, her body relaxed and she placed her arm on his shoulder without forming the words to say yes.  Slowly the music started playing, or at least it was in his mind.  As the world circled around them, he was never prouder than in this moment.  In this moment, he had the queen of the world in his embrace and he would never let go.  All he wanted, was to show her off to the rest of the world.  Without realizing, he was now singing with the music...softly, gently, but with just enough passion to truly express his love for her.  Why was his cheek suddenly wet?  Before he could answer the question, she had put her hand softly to his cheek.  He had been crying, but was so absorbed in the moment of the dance he hadn't noticed.  He saw a gentle smile from his bride and also a small tear run down her cheek.  Leaning in closer, he placed a gentle kiss on her forehead, also wiping the tear from her face.

It was a perfect dance, which started the beginning of a perfect love.  Even though there would be tough times ahead, nothing could separate them from this moment.